Even if you aren’t a fan of RAP music, you’ve gotta hand it to M.I.A.’s pregnant Grammy performance last night on the Grammy’s with T.I., Jay-Z, Lil’ Wayne, and Kanye West.  She rocked the house in a signature couture pregnancy outfit…on, yes listen closely ladies….her due date!  Her outfit was made with polka dots and mesh fabric putting it all out there.  I just had to write about it because to me that takes real confidence and self esteem and I couldn’t have been prouder while I was watching.

There was a woman standing on stage with four men, doing what she loved, thinking outside of the box about career options for working mothers, paving new paths for future generations, keeping it real and doing it her way and shining with Self Esteem.  Just what Six Figure Moms Club is all about.  My kinda woman.  You can see more about M.I.A. in Huffington Posts’ article here.

Next time you’re feeling insecure about anything, think about Ms. M.I.A. rocking it on the stage with her 9 month pregnant belly covered in Mesh.  You just gotta love it!

So, I bet you’re wondering what in the world could rap music have to do with life lessons for executive women?  Keep reading.  I was perusing Tony Robbins’ newsletter when I noticed a link to an appearance on MTV.  I thought, “Tony Robbins is going to take a shot at being a rapper now?  Come on!”.  Anyway, I was just curious enough to watch so I clicked through.  Seems that Hurricane Chris in his 51/50 Ratchet CD has some serious clarity about personal leadership.  The video from Hip Hop Owner’s Manual describes a rap music term, RATCHET. The definition of Ratchet is living your life’s dream and being yourself without regard for what anyone else thinks.  In Rapper speak, “Doing YOU”.  Ratchet comes with a few guiding principles:

1. Raise Your Game – Don’t settle.  Live your life’s dream.  Hold a higher standard and be really clear on your goals.
2. Act Like You Know – Have no fear.  Don’t hesitate.  Take action in moments of clarity when you know your authentic self is driving.
3. Defy and Act – Defy your own fears and limitations.  Be your best self.

Watch the video and see for yourself. Who knew we executive women could learn so much from the rap community!  Watching this video and learning about Hip Hop Owner’s Manual also led me to a very interesting New York Times article about the future of TV and mobile devices.  Where we’re headed is pretty amazing!

So, Life lessons from the Hip Hop Owner’s Manual?  You betcha!