Monkey Wrenches, Supergirl & Where in the World is Angie San Diego?
This is the longest stretch I’ve ever gone without posting to my blog and I’ve missed you guys. Where do I start? Everyday I think about a blog post I’d like to write but time just passes by. What I need most is to clone myself. I know you all know what I mean. The days of a working mother are crazy during normal times but throw any wrench into the daily routine and everything goes haywire. We’ve had a few wrenches at my house in the past few weeks.
My daughter has had some bronchitis/ear/throat combo ick plus we had an “incident” at school and it’s her fourth birthday next weekend so we’re planning a party.
Let’s start with the Bronchitis Ick. I got a call on the way to a meeting to pick my daughter up at school due to a fever. Of course, I canceled meetings and went to her immediately. Next, five days lost work. Not to mention my little one who suffered. Thank goodness for flexible work and the ability to stay home when I need to but it sure does put a kink in ones ability to keep up. (I did win an Ipod Touch Tweeting on @joelcomm’s Tweetathon while my daughter laid on my lap. Woo Hoo and Thanks Joel! Of Course, I haven’t had time to use it yet but you can read more about this event here.)
Next, my daughter told me an alarming story about boys and her private body parts. This is so personal and dear to us that I won’t go into details. However, I wanted to mention it to alert you that our children are never too young to be reminded about personal privacy and their own personal power. My daughter is still three. I was naive to think she wouldn’t be facing any issues like this yet. As a protective mama bear, I’m now on the watch and in full training mode. I want you to be aware too so I’m telling you that we need to remind our little girls that they are SUPERGIRL! Little Swartz and I are now talking about personal safety on a regular basis. She’s fine but I’m in the middle of an investigation with her school. What happened to her was mild and I’m thankful that I’m now in high alert mode. I can do even better to protect her.
Now for the fun stuff. As I mentioned, she’s turning four soon. Her Grandma is flying into town for her birthday and we’re planning a party for 40 kiddos. You know the drill, party planning, invitations, goody bags, food menu, RSVP coordination…oh, and getting ready for a visit from Grandma.
So, I’ve had a few wrenches lately…
I know some of you have had a few wrenches too so I wanted to write about mine. Sometimes it’s just good to know that we aren’t all in this alone. Everyone has wrenches. I know I’m not perfect but I just keep trying to keep my head above water and to keep moving everything forward. My solace comes from helping other people so I try to help someone else every day. It makes me feel better. What makes you feel better?
In addition to my wrenches, I’m working on some really fabulous things that I can’t wait to tell you all about. I’ll be writing more detailed posts in the future but for now, go check out GoEverywhere. I’m working on a social media project with them via Square Martini Media.
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Happy Sunday and cheers to turning your Wrenches into Rainbows!
4 Responses to “Monkey Wrenches, Supergirl & Where in the World is Angie San Diego?”
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Sorry for your monkey wrenches Angie! Hope little one is better soon. And the training goes well. I guess that’s lifelong. I was an “early bloomer” so I had a lot of what I now realize was sexual harassment as a teen – even from my male Junior High and High School teachers. Luckily my parents had raised me as a SUPERGIRL even all those yars ago. So no lasting damage. Thanks Mom and Dad.
And it is always reassuring to me to learn that my colleagues don’t lead perfect lives. I agree that doing things for others, dancing and exercise make me feel better. And don’t underestimate a cup of hot tea or glass of wine. Or BOTH, which is what I have right now. On to my taxes…
Hope you have a great 4th birthday!
I think that dealing with “wrenches” can be especially challenging for members of this group who tend to be highly organized, effective and efficient. I know that I struggle when life’s wrenches reduce my abilities to be any or all of those things. The good news is that this too shall pass and that we have the strong coping skills to get through it.
I’m looking for a good children’s book about personal privacy that I can read with my young children. The ones I’ve found so far are geared more towards the late elementary school age and older. As you’ve sadly learned our younger children need just as much training. So if anyone has a recommendation please share it.
As for parent resources I highly recommend “Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (and Parents Sane)” by Gavin de Becker. Another good source of real facts, statistics and advice is the State Attorney General’s office website, specifically the Megan’s Law section: http://www.meganslaw.ca.gov/in.....ng=ENGLISH. Be sure to read the Facts about Sex Offenders section.
But for now just focus on the fun. Happy 4th, Little Swartz!
I was trying to find you on Twitter tonight and my rabbit holes led me here. I find huge rest in knowing that I’ve got another entrepreneur Mom in the boat w/ me. And, that on oour way from ‘zero to Master’ in business we are still there to hold the hearts of our children we love when they need us most.
Best of Energy!
Great post. We should all spend more time turning our wrenches into rainbows.